Monday, February 15, 2010

Bisexuality: Fact or Fiction

MY definition of bisexuality.. - Being EMOTIONALLY attracted to both males and females.

Bisexuality has become the "trend" in the new millennium..
But can a person REALLY be EMOTIONALLY attracted to both women and men??
In my opinion.. NO

I think a person can be PHYSICALLY, attracted to both sexes but is ultimately more EMOTIONALLY attracted to the one "dominant" sex..

Being physically attracted to both sexes does not necessarily make you bisexual, gay, or straight.. I feel like that would fall more into the category of hyper-sexuality, basically meaning, YOU LOVE SEX! In this case, whether male of female, it's just sex and no emotional strings are attached, for you at least..

Emotional attraction is when feelings are involved.. Theoretically, a person can have sex with another person, regardless of their gender, and not have feelings involved or be emotionally attached. Being emotionally attached to another person determines whether you are STRAIGHT or GAY.. not just having "sexual relations"... I believe even in hyper-sexuality there is still one, "dominant," sex that you are emotionally attracted to.. Whether that "dominant" sex switches over time.. there is still only ONE DOMINANT SEX..

Personally, I feel like some people would just rather say "I'm bisexual" instead of saying "I'm attracted to men, but I like having sex with women too".. It's easier.. That's understandable.. Many would consider you bisexual or gay.. But I'd say you're straight AND just enjoy having sex.. (FOOD FOR THOUGHT)

There's nothing wrong with hyper-sexuality.. If that works for you.. By all means.. DO YOU AND ENJOY! If you consider yourself bisexual.. I applaud you.. I may not agree with you.. My opinion shouldn't and WILL NOT alter the way you live your life or classify yourself.. I just don't think a person can have their full emotions involved with both sexes at the same time.. To me, the word "bi" means 2.. NOT one and kinda the other or one and then the other.. Just 2..

1 comment:

  1. i'm confused...I think its up to the person to decide...some people are just nasty but others look past gender in order to judge whether or not they are emotionally attracted to a person.

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